Dissecting the Details: October

DISSECTING the DETAILS

"I'm not an expert on anything but, I know something about almost everything...or I'd like to think so". - Rochelle

Here are some OCTOBER Details: 

Halloween is on Thursday, October 31st this year.  If you decorate your pumpkins artfully, they can double as both Halloween and general Fall decor.  Head to your LSS (local scrapbook store), Hobby Lobby or even Michael's to find chalk board paint ( I LOVE Krylon.  See HERE) and neat appliques (like this iron-on star. Just apply with hot glue) or stickers to add to your pumpkin!  Don't even get me started on bails of hay!  They're cheap and they scream FALL!

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Every year we see the pink ribbons and we listen to the heart wrenching stories of women and men that have lost their battles with Breast Cancer due to late detection. There is a simple exam that you can do to check your breasts for abnormalities.  The infographic  below is pretty great.  You should have a CANDID conversation with your physician about your family's history with cancer.  Also, you should educate yourself about this disease.  Visit:  www.cancer.gov

October 1st is the first day for open enrollment into the Affordable Care Act.  There is a lot that folks don't understand about this new law.  There is NO REASON to be ignorant about it!  PLEASE go visit: www.healthcare.gov.  If you know someone with no internet and they have questions, have them call: 24 hours a day, 7 days a week: 1-800-318-2596 (TTY: 1-855-889-4325)

Hope this was helpful and please feel free to dissect more details in the comment section!

The Beauty in Repurposing

The photo above is special to me.  It is a photo of the axle and wheels of an old train car that lives in one of our neighborhood parks.  My husband, son and I visited this park over the Summer and made some great memories.  What is special about this train car is that my son, at this point in his little life is completely enamored with trains.  So, to be able to facilitate any train experience for him is a joy to behold!

Let's take a look at this train car.

It's a beautiful piece of nostalgia.  I actually love this photo.  The colors are vivid yet tempered like a scene out of a technicolor western movie.

Looking back at this photo made me reflect on my life...I'm always reflecting.  I have reinvented myself little by little over the years.  One of the major factors that contributed to me avoiding a major personal overhaul has been fear.  Maybe I'm too old, maybe I can only do what I've been doing...etc.  When I looked at this train car I began to realize that it's not an old relic, no longer useful and incapable of contributing anything of value to the world.  It has been re-purposed.  It is now a catalyst for making little boys dreams come true.  It's a source of inspiration for a 31 year old woman.  It stands as a beautiful reminder of where technology was and where it's going.

We've all heard the countless cliches about growth.  The one that sticks out as the most prominent in my head is: "Things that do not grow - die".  Even though the train car is an inanimate object...it still grew.  Its purpose was redefined.  It was upcycled into something more meaningful than it's intended purpose.

I have dedicated myself to re-purposing.  I wasn't comfortable with what I was and I am working on growing gracefully into what I would like to be.  I'm re-purposing my degree in education - I'll teach folks how to make things.  I'm re-purposing my skills as an Administrative Assistant - I'll use my attention to detail to create the best art I can.

What part of your life do you need to re-purpose.  Who says that you have to be the same way, live the same way, eat the same way, dress the same way?  You can change and grow and thrive and recycle and upcycle - if you want to...

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Miscellaneous Goodness

Thrift stores almost always = awesome.  Awesome vintage finds, awesome furniture finds, awesome clothing finds...you get the point. So, I was more than pleased to find this forty year old Reader's Digest Atlas.  This is the kind of reference book that my mom always bought for me.  In the eighties and early to mid nineties the internet was not the go-to place for reference materials.  While having an almost unfathomable amount of information available to you at the click of a mouse is convenient - there is most certainly NOTHING better than holding a book in your hands.

Look at my new gem:

Can you believe this book was only $2.95 at my local GoodWill?  I gasped so loud at the register that I sucked all the air away from the cashier!  I was that surprised!  I promise you I'll treasure this until I die!

This is the first thing thing you see when you open the atlas.  It's an old world style of map that you only see now on television shows from the 14th - 16th centuries.

Beautiful and authoritative type face.  Look at the endless flourishes on the top and the bottom of the text.  Ahhh this Atlas is a tall glass of life!

See, told ya...1963!  Wonderful condition!  Someone's grandmother had this in her study or library.

You know I had to include a photo of my state and my CIT-TAY! A-T-L-A-N-T-A-G-A that's where I stay! LOL!

Do you have any Miscellaneous Goodness to share from the week?

RoseRedd Made It: Stuffed Zucchini

G'day folks! The recipe for this week is my stuffed zucchini!  Of course I'm not the first person to make stuffed zucchini but, I'd like to think that my recipe is pretty good.  I served this with a big field green salad.

What I love about this dish is that it's both tasty and healthy.

Ingredients List:
(4) Large Zucchini
(1) Large carrot
(1) Cup of mushrooms (bella would be best)
(1/2) Cup of scallions
(2) Leaves of basil
(1) Large heirloom tomato

Seasoning:
Sea Salt
Garlic
EVOO (Extra virgin olive oil)

Alright, so, I used four large zucchini squash.  I cut each zucchini in half and then cored each half.  I saved the "innards" to use for the stuffing.

Next, you want to chop up all the other goodies you want to include in your stuffing.  I used diced heirloom tomatoes, white mushrooms, scallions, fresh basil, and carrots.  You can really use anything you'd like.  Just be careful that you don't pick things that will turn to mush.

Next, I chopped fairly large "chunks" of mozzarella cheese.  I use the Polly-O brand.  I really like the quality of the cheese.  It's super yummers!

Next, I saute all the veggies, including the cored zucchini in skillet with a tablespoon EVOO (extra virgin olive oil).  I add garlic and a tiny bit of  sea salt in with the veggies.  Remember, salt will draw water out of your veggies and they'll loose their nice texture.  Don't forget that you can always season the stuffed zucchini before it goes into the oven.

Next, toss the mozzarella in with the mixture and spoon the stuffing into each zucchini shell.  Now would be the time to add additional seasoning before you pop it in the oven.  While all this is going on, I would pre-heat the oven to 350 degrees.  Bake it in the oven until all the cheese is melted.  I like mine to be slightly brown.  Use your discretion.

Optional ingredients:  You can add day old bread and canned tomatoes to make this a more filling dish.  However, my version is for those with more than enough love on their handles!

Insider Tip:  I also saute and season the outside zucchini shell.

Here is what the final product looks like.

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GoodNites Would Have Saved our Lives!

This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of GoodNites. All opinions are 100% mine.

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GoodNites are slim, comfortable, and compact just like regular underwear!  They feature your child's favorite characters making them an easy choice for your little one during bedtime.  Notice how slim they are?  The material they're made out of is very light and soft.  My little guy would have jumped at the chance to wear these!

During a recent visit from family members the need for GoodNites arose!  My four year old cousin was having trouble sleeping through the night and nap times accident free. I was able to give his mother peace of mind by introducing GoodNites.  He wore them for every nap and for every bedtime.  He liked that they were "cool" and had Spider Man on them. He also liked that he could slip his big boy underwear over them without the bulky feeling that he had experienced with other brands!

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I'm Gonna Share...You're Gonna Like It

I don't like to call my self a lifestyle blogger.  I think of myself as more of a miscellaneous blogger.  I don't want to have to talk about any one particular thing - all the time.  I'm not like that in my real life so, I don't want to even attempt to be that way in my virtual life.

Today I want to talk about my reproductive system.  And no, this isn't TMI.  I find that we women can help each other out a lot just by sharing.  Brace yourself.  This isn't going to be a post about skinny girls in white jeans frolicking down some pristine beach with pink sand!  This is some real shit. Some my back aching, my bra too tight, my hips swaying from the left to the right - type shit.

I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS).  I was diagnosed when I was thirteen.  However, it really didn't affect me until my mid-twenties.  I was even told that it would make conceiving a child very difficult.  So, uh, yeah...that symptom skipped me because Picard is alive and well four years later!  I had the hair growth on my face, the weight gain, the insane cycles and all that.

BUT...when I turned the big 3-0, something changed!  My ovaries were in full revolt against me!  I was taking 600mg of Ibuprofen like it was nothing.  I went to the doctor and found out that I had some large cysts.  They treated me with a high dose birth control ON TOP of my IUD so, I was acting super cray!  It worked though...for a while.  Then, I was experiencing pain again just like before.  This time, surgery was placed on the table and I jumped at that chance!  

Turns out my ovary had ruptured and attached itself to some of my innards! No wonder I was in pain!  That ovary and the Fallopian tube were removed. The good doctor even did some ovarian drilling on the remaining ovary as a preventative measure.  The surgery was done laparoscopically and now I'm recovering.  This recovery business is real!  I can just imagine how much more difficult it would have been had laparoscopy not been an option.

This ordeal went on way longer than necessary.  I ignored a lot of the symptoms because I've got a life and I didn't want to stop to pay attention to my body.  HORRIBLE mistake!  I would like to prompt you to take stock of how you're feeling because the quality of your life can improve drastically if you just take care of yourself.

Turns Out...I'm a Hater.

Hello you blog reader you!  Recently, I had an encounter with someone I truly admire and respect.  She wrapped my entire life in a nice box with a bow on it and gave it to me!  In other words, she gave me my life!  I'm a budding self-taught graphic designer.  Therefore, I'm constantly comparing myself to those that have earned a graphic design degree.  I only do this because I have insecurities about the fact that I spent money on an education degree and can't afford to go to design school.

That's the back story.

So, one day, a friend of mine and I were looking at some design work on 99Designs (awesome site, if you need a designer, check 'em out).  There is this designer that wins a lot of the competitions.  I stumbled across her while looking through a gallery.  The more that I realized that she was winning, the more I began to doubt my own skill.  I mean, my designs are better than hers!  My design aesthetic is better than hers!  AND I didn't even go to school for this!  How can she be so wack yet, win all these competitions and money!?!  

This is where the story picks up.

My friend said "Why are you hating"?  I looked at her like she said my mama was fat.  She repeated herself "Why are you hating"?  I replied that I wasn't hating and I asked her if she saw the same designs that I saw?  She said that she had noticed the lack of professionalism in some the lady's designs but, she didn't need to attack her to point that out.  I felt so defensive and frustrated!  I began explaining that I wasn't hating, I was critiquing.  But, the more I talked, the more I realized, I was hating.  There is a difference between "This bitch's designs are wack"!  and "She needs to select better typography and work on the composition of her designs".  I was hating.  I was spewing hate.  I wasn't trying to figure out what she was doing right, and what I was doing wrong.    I didn't even know this chick and I was hating on her like she was a sworn enemy of mine.

I do that shit a lot.

I'm going to stop it.  Here is how I'm going to do it.

1.  Identify the feelings that make me want to hate.  Is it jealously I'm feeling?  Anxiety?  Envy?

2.  Make a conscious decision to look within before searching for faults in others.

3.  Learn to appreciate the positive in folks.

4.  Abstain from hating ass activities with hating ass people.

5.  Admit that I have hater tendencies.